How to Handle Being Dumped—By a friend!

You would have thought I stole her boyfriend, well her husband rather, or left the backdoor of her townhouse open and let her dog run away.  I could see if I talked about her kid, or stole from her purse (do people still do that anymore), but I didn’t do any of those things; nothing […]

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Dating and Relationships: 20 Questions to know by the 3rd Date!

When I was around 19 or 20, I dated a guy for weeks without ever knowing his home phone number or even where he lived.  Whenever we’d go out, he’d drive us about an hour away, to the major city nearby—which I looked at as both exciting and fun.  That was until the day his […]

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Do You NEED a Husband? 10 Reasons Why the Answer Might be YES!

Is “singleness” a thing?  And by thing, I mean, in the same vain as how people take pride in, let’s say, being stylish, or tech savvy, or entrepreneurial maybe?  It’s been something I’ve wondered for the past several years, as I’ve encountered more and more women who seem to rally behind this notion of being […]

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“No New Friends!” 7 Reasons to Reconsider!

Now-a-days, it’s a common phrase to hear, “no new friends”, especially since the rapper Drake made it popular in a song by the same title.  I have to be honest and admit that although I’ve heard people repeat this saying dozens of times, I only recently listened to the song.  The lyrics, which are somewhat […]

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Avoid These Friendship Mistakes …..

Today I would consider myself a pretty good friend to the people in my circle, but I’ll admit this wasn’t always the case.  In junior high school I lost my very best friend after ditching her at a party to go off with my boyfriend—epic friendship fail!  In college, I put a serious strain on […]

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7 Ways to Avoid Negative People, Now!

If I was charged with the task of ranking my pet peeves, negative people would definitely be first on the list.  Although individuals in this category run the spectrum, for the sake of time, let me outline a few! The first type are who I like to call, “The Everyone Sucks but Me” kind of […]

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Are You Too Good for Him (or Her)? 7 Ways to tell!

Somewhere many of us got the notion that it wasn’t cool to acknowledge being better than someone for the sake seeming humble or, simply not wanting to brag.  My view is just the opposite: I say that we need to get in the habit of being confident in where we shine in comparison to others, […]

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