No, You Aren’t a Better Woman and NO, He’s Not Gonna Change!

Occasionally, on social media– let me rephrase– quite often on social media, I stumble across a meme, a quote, or a post that makes me stop and pause– sometimes I literally scratch my head– but not for the reasons you might think.  I wish it were because these blurb’s are insightful, or provoking with their candor […]

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Stop Raising Baby Mamas and Daddies! 3 Ways to Break the Cycle Now.

Okay, you might be asking yourself, is it really possible to raise a child to become a baby mama or daddy?  Like, are parents actually out here training their kids to be solo-dolo moms and dads, for God sakes?  Or, better yet, I know a few of you are rolling your eyes, thinking, “here comes […]

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Hollywood Rules—7 Lessons to Love by!

Most of us know that what we see on the big screen is just for entertainment; we aren’t foolish enough to think that movies can teach us anything about human nature, or morals, or about life.  Right? Of course we aren’t!  As intelligent beings, we understand that knowledge and wisdom comes from our parents, and from schools […]

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It’s Not Your Looks? 6 Reasons Men Find You Unattractive!

So, men are visual creatures, huh?  At least that’s the story women have been sold for eons and by the current state of the modern day female, it would appear as if we have truly bought into that narrative.  And why shouldn’t we.  You can’t open up your phone or computer, turn on your television, […]

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I Don’t Want to Come to Your Party! Here’s Why?

I just want to let you know that I’m boycotting your party, so save your energy and don’t invite me!  Yes, you, my dear beloved friend, cousin, Aunty, and acquaintance with whom I get along with so well.  I adore you, but I don’t want to attend your party, even though it might be an […]

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6 Really Stupid Things to Say to a Homeschooling Mom!

After 15 years of homeschooling, nothing anyone says or asks me concerning it surprises me anymore; but, that has not always been the case.  I don’t sweat the questions or negativity from strangers anymore, that’s because I spent years prior having to stand trial.  My judges were family and close friends, but I don’t blame […]

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Better Parenting: When it’s better to give money instead!

With the passing of one of the biggest holidays of the year, children across the country were graced with an abundance of new items: everything from toys, electronics, super-gadgets, clothes, shoes, and just about every other thing their little hearts could fancy, waiting for them Christmas morning, probably under a decked out tree!  Now, that […]

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How to Handle Being Dumped—By a friend!

You would have thought I stole her boyfriend, well her husband rather, or left the backdoor of her townhouse open and let her dog run away.  I could see if I talked about her kid, or stole from her purse (do people still do that anymore), but I didn’t do any of those things; nothing […]

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Is 40 the New 20? The Reality of the 4th Decade

Feeling confident in yourself– whether that’s regarding your looks, your life path, or simply as it pertains to who you are as a person– is challenging at any age, but you step into an entirely different ball game after you hit 40.  I can remember having my first child at 26 and noticing the shift […]

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Fix these 3 Mindsets, Watch Your Money Grow!

Okay, so here is the trend—only publicize your wins, accentuate the highlights, and by all means, hide all mistakes and flaws; but, trends, just like rules, should be broken sometimes.  Now, if you knew my husband and I, say, ten years ago, you would have probably labeled us as financially successful.  Were we wealthy?  No!  […]

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