How to Handle Being Dumped—By a friend!

You would have thought I stole her boyfriend, well her husband rather, or left the backdoor of her townhouse open and let her dog run away.  I could see if I talked about her kid, or stole from her purse (do people still do that anymore), but I didn’t do any of those things; nothing […]

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Self Care: 7 People You Just Can’t Help

“You’re a Queen Mother,” he told me, “inside of you is a medicine that will help many people!”  Those were the words of the Ghanaian Shaman with whom I met to give me insight into my life’s path.  I cried—not just because of that, but because he also spoke about my grandmother, with whom I […]

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“No New Friends!” 7 Reasons to Reconsider!

Now-a-days, it’s a common phrase to hear, “no new friends”, especially since the rapper Drake made it popular in a song by the same title.  I have to be honest and admit that although I’ve heard people repeat this saying dozens of times, I only recently listened to the song.  The lyrics, which are somewhat […]

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Avoid These Friendship Mistakes …..

Today I would consider myself a pretty good friend to the people in my circle, but I’ll admit this wasn’t always the case.  In junior high school I lost my very best friend after ditching her at a party to go off with my boyfriend—epic friendship fail!  In college, I put a serious strain on […]

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